escapades échangistes

Mon blog est fait pour ceux qui osent explorer leurs horizons érotiques. Rejoignez-nous sur un voyage d'exploration de soi, des intermèdes sexuelles; profiter d'un sexy & coquine se défouler à travers tous les aspects du monde moderne se balançant dans les subrurbs. (My blog is for those who dare to explore their erotic horizons. Join us on a journey of self exploration, sexual interludes; enjoy a sexy & naughty romp through all aspects of modern day swinging in the brurbs)

Jouez avec lui!

Play with him!
There are all kinds of common objects that
produce intense and enjoyable sensations when applied to a helpless lover.
Combs for dragging across the skin, feathers for tickling a frantic foot,
clothespins (use a couple or use many in artistic rows--these can be as intense
as you want to make them!), ice cubes, chocolate syrup, strawberries (ever see
9 1/2 Weeks?), leather belts for slapping or spanking, hairbrushes for scuffing
or beating, and of course your own fingers, mouth, genitals, and everything
else. Enjoy taking your time with your willing victim; drive him to distraction,
then bring him to the edge of ecstasy, then back off and make them beg for
more!

Domination Féminine

Female Domination

I believe that many
women are intimidated by and uncomfortable with the concept of erotic female
domination because of the way they see it portrayed in adult films and in the
media. I believe that men also develop many bad habits after years of
satisfying their fantasies on their own, and focusing on their own pleasure.
Through communication, trust and safe, sane & consensual exploration of
erotic power exchange, I think many couples can experience pleasure they never
imagined, and also develop better relationship communication and
intimacy.

O.M.G. allez-vous descendre sur moi ou quoi?

O.M.G. are you going to go down on me or what?

That question has crossed my mind a few times...hehe...oral sex is one of lifes greatest pleasures...for guys & gals.

Let me just say in the lifestyle most..I say most couples are trimmed, waxed or shaved down under. Every once in awhile you cum across some one who isn't but for the most part they are.... sasquach could be a deal breaker.

Just so ya know....diving straight for it isn't a turn on. Anticipation is EVERYTHING! In other words...tease the hell outta your partner before actually doing the deed.

Couples have different attitudes about giving/receiving oral sex. Which is ok, both my hubby & I enjoy giving & receiving matter of fact I do believe my hubby is a lesbian in a man's body - he knows exactly what a woman wants....to brag...I have some awesome wicked mad skills when it cums to sucking cock.....or so I have heard...lol

..the fellatio finale.....to swallow or not? Its different with men....most women don't squirt (wait till you hear about our experience with a squirter!!! later on in my blog) Men however cum all over the place...mouth, face, boobies, butt...whereever that gal is comfy with.

I will admit it - I swallow! And I like it! Its a women's choice...I really don't care if they do or not - I know that men enjoy it when a chick swallows their cum. Or at least I think they do.

Hey guys! What are your thoughts? Do you like it when women swallow? Is it a turn on? Go ahead - educate us gals.

baiser ...

...kissing
I think many of us
will agree that kissing is a major part of foreplay. But for many swinging
couples kissing is off limits during a swapping encounter.
Why is this?
Most will conclude that kissing, simply put, is too intimate. Those who enjoy
and sometimes consider kissing a requirement to achieve sexual arousal will
argue that it just doesn't get more intimate than intercourse.
Basically, as with all aspects of swinging, kissing or the desire not to is a
personal choice. We all have different perceptions of intimacy and should never
feel the need to explain why we feel as we do.
Of course we must communicate with potential swinging friends to discover
likes, dislikes, fantasies and desires but we must accept and respect the
information that we receive.
There is no right or wrong in swinging. The variety of chosen guidelines in the
lifestyle is as broad and colorful as those who swing with it.
We simply have the choice to accept or decline based on our personal needs and
desires!

... êtes-vous un monstre?

...are you a freak?

THE FREAK TEST

Do not be alarmed if you find out that you are a freak (or how to spot one)!!!!

Have You Ever:
1. Had sex? (5pts.)
2. Oral sex? (5 pts.)
3. Swallowed cum? (5pts.)
4. Practice bondage, or Sado-masichistic behavior? (5pts.)
5. Had anal sex? (5pts.) To orgasm? (5pts.)
6. Had sex with someone of the same sex? (10pts.)
7. Had sex with more than 1 person at a time? (10pts.)
8. Had sex with more than one person in a week?
(7pts.)
9. Used sex toys? (7pts.) On yourself (1pts) On someone else (2pts)
10. Bought a dirty magazine? (3pts.)
11. Watched a porno? (3pts.)
12. Been in a 69 position? (3pts.)
13. Had phone sex? (5pts.)
14. Masturbated? (5pts.) In a public place? (5pts.)
15. Had sex in a public place? (5pts.) Park? (1pt.) Subway?(3pts.) Alleyway?
(2pts.) Train or bus station? (3pts.)
16. Gotten carpet burns? (3pts.)
17. Participated in an orgy? (10pts.)
18. Watched someone having sex? (7pts.)
19. Had sex with others watching you? (7pts.)
20. Sucked or licked your own: Females: Breast or pussy?(12pts.)
Males: Dick? (12pts.)
21. Paid for sex? (8pts.)
22. Been paid for sex? (8pts.)
23. Had a one night stand? (8pts.)
24. Passed out during sex? (5pts.)
25. Bite someone during sex (8pts.)
26. Tried any of the following - (6pts.ec) Spanked or have been spanked? Given or rec'd a rim job? Experienced nipple clamps?
27. Had sex anyplace other than the bedroom? (3pts. for each place)

Scoring:
1-25: How does it look up there with the angels?
26-55: Ok, you know the bare minimum. Go join a sex-ed class.
56-85: Ok, you're just on the outskirts of being a freak.
86-125: Welcome to the land of the FREAKS!!!
126-170: You are a BONAFIDE FREAK!!! You could teach a freak class.
171 +: You are the Dean of Freak College. You're not only a client, your Da
Freaky President!

.. vos lèvres et sexe ... qu'est-ce qu'ils ont en commun???

..your lips & sex...what do they have in common???

Is your mouth on the generous size, with thick, full lips?

~ Sex life: Open and fulfilled. You love the pleasures in life and
seek maximum thrills in bed. You radiate confidence and this makes you
devastatingly attractive to men.
~You like: Exchange. You use your experiences, try new things and
share them with others. Giving and receiving is important to you.

Is your mouth small, and your lips
thin and defined?

~Sensuality: You're measured and selective, and you go for quality over
quantity! Some senses are much more important to you than others, and you tend
to neglect the rest.
~You like: Sophistication, beautiful words, presentation and
subtlety. You like things to be done properly. Your tastes push you to
extremes; when you're into something you need to know everything there is to
know about it!

~unknown internet source

les gars ... ta bite / bite / penis...your ami

guys...your cock/dick/penis...your friend...

Here are some things you might have wondered about your best friend.......

No. 1: Use It or Lose ItYou need to have erections regularly to keep your penis in shape. "It has to be essentially exercised," says Tobias Kohler, MD, MPH, assistant professor of urology at Southern Illinois University School of Medicine, in Springfield, Ill.To maintain a healthy tone, the smooth muscle of the penis must be periodically enriched with oxygen by the rush of blood that engorges the penis and makes it erect.

No. 2: Your Penis May Be a 'Grower' or a 'Show-er'Among men, there is no consistent relationship between the size of the flaccid penis and its full erect length.In one study of 80 men, researchers found that increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged widely, from less than a quarter-inch to 3.5 inches longer.Whatever the clinical significance of these data may be, the locker-room significance is considerable. You can't assume that a dude with a big, limp penis gets much bigger with an erection. And the guy whose penis looks tiny might get a surprisingly big erection.

No. 3: The Pleasure ZoneMany men consider the underside of the glans (head) of the penis and the underside of the shaft to be most sensitive to sexual pleasure.Researchers asked 81 healthy men to rate the erotic sensitivity of different areas of their bodies, including not only the penis, but also zones such as the scrotum, anus, nipples, and neck.The underside of the glans and underside of the shaft had the highest sensitivity rating for a significant majority of men, followed by the upper side of the glans, left and right sides of the glans, sides of the penis, upper side of the shaft.

No. 4: Sensitivity Declines With AgeStudies show that the penis steadily loses sensitivity as men age, though it's hard to say by how much, exactly. That's because different researchers have used different ways to stimulate the penis and measure sensitivity.

No. 5: Vibrators Work on the Penis, TooVibrators aren't only for women. They work on the penis, too. In fact, vibration is so effective on the penis that often men with spinal cord injuries can ejaculate with the aid of a special medical vibrator. For this kind of treatment, the vibrator is usually held against the underside of the head of the penis.

No. 6: There's More to the Penis Than Meets the Eye"Most guys would be proud to know that their penis is twice as long as they think it is," Kohler says.That's because half the length of the penis is inside your body. Just like you don't see all of a big oak tree above ground, you don't see the root of your penis tucked up inside your pelvis and attached to your pubic bone.As seen in an MRI picture, an erect penis is shaped like a boomerang
~Web MD

comment gérer les fous ...

how to handle boobies...

Breasts are like snowflakes. Every one is unique. Know the right moves, though, and you'll have her melting in your arms.

Large Breasts: Stimulate the outer sides of her breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips. Make flipping motions with your tongue and even experiment with light nibbling.

Small Breasts: They're sensitive, but they can handle more motion because of their size. Use your palms to cup and gently bounce her breasts during sex.

Droopy Breasts: Droopy breasts can be the least sensitive--not only are the nerves stretched, but they're compressed by the breasts' weight. Have her lie on her back; it'll cause her breasts to shift up and out, relieving the tension on the nerves and helping her focus on the pleasure.

What About Her Nipples?
These handy barometers of desire are simple to read: Up is "on," down is "off." But they're also thermometers, popping up when the weather's cold, like giant goose bumps. The nipples are important—in fact, for some women, you can induce an orgasm just by doing breast duty. But the sensitivity of nipples varies widely; handle with care.

Large: Because they have more nerve endings, big nipples are often hypersensitive, so don't be too aggressive when applying pressure.

Small: The areola—the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple—is actually more sensitive than the nipple itself. Focus especially on the upper quadrant of her breast, between 10 and 2 o'clock. It's the most sensitive part of the bull's-eye.

What is your size of choice?

You're a Small Boobs ManMen who like small-breasted women—and there are millions of them—are often seeking a more submissive, non-threatening partner, says psychologist Stuart Fischoff. Also, you may get the psychological hint that she’s not trying to compete with other women who have larger breasts, and therefore she’ll be loyal to you. Or maybe the very first girl you had a crush on had small breasts, and if she constructed your earliest example of what’s sexy, her memory may still lead you to find small-breasted women exciting.To maximize your arousal, have her stretch during missionary-position sex, by straightening her arms above her head. Anything that makes her appear long and lithe will flatten her breasts and stroke your primal urges.

You're a Big Boobs ManSome researchers have theorized that human breasts evolved to be so preciously pendulous because, well, they need to do the work a baboon’s backside does in attracting a mate. “Unlike a baboon, a human woman walks upright and needs to have her sexual attributes up front,” says sex therapist Michael Perry. So, in a sense, her breasts may be a frontal derrière. In fact, the visual qualities of the breasts and the behind aren’t all that different. “Also, men and women look for differentiation in their sex partners,” says Perry. We already bring flat and hard to the bedroom; we need something curvy, supple and bouncy to make us feel complete.Try this move: Put her on top so she faces you and let her do the bouncing. For a fuller experience, have her hold her breasts together and do the movement thing you’ve seen in the porn movies. Just be gentle and use plenty of lubricant; she’s not built to handle harsh friction up there.
~MensHealth.com

Hmmmmm...interesting stuff - all I have to say is...
JUST PLAY WITH MY BOOBIES.....Please :)