Wifey - I'm pretty sure I was the one who first mentioned the idea of swinging to my hubby. It's been like 9 years ago..more lthan likely when we were in the sack having sex..or in the aftreglow. Not really sure why or what made me mention it..just did. I had previously dabbled in the lifestyle, so I kinda knew about it a little. I thought it would be a fun & sexy way to meet new folks, have some naughty fun....watch my hubby do other chicks - which btw is hot!
We found a website - created a profile - sent our friend requests and before ya knew it we were meeting a couple for our first "Couples Date" It was so exciting - we were like little kids - all gitty, we were nervous, yet excited.....
We met for dinner, and then hung out in the parking lot for a few minutes saying goodbye. I remember the guy putting his hand on my lower back under my shirt - I was thinking wow & at the same time I was a bit uncomforatable - my hubby was right there - just felt odd. He on the other hand had the other chick sitting on the tail gate standing between her legs sucking face... again HOT!
We spent lots of fun times with this couple - they are such a wonderful (in & outta the sack) couple - they spoiled us for sure! After all this time - we would still do them! Oh hell yes!!!
Hubby- Wow! How do I explain
those initial feelings as we took those first, excited, tentative steps into
the lifestyle? Butterflies causing
jitters like those from when you lost your virginity. The nervousness of that first kiss, knowing
you were kissing someone else and your spouse/partner was watching. The jealousy of watching your spouse pick out
date clothes, knowing he/she was being uber-selective for the purpose of
attracting someone else’s attention.
I remember when my wife first raised the question of the
lifestyle with me. We were in
California, and I thought, “really? Is
this really happening? Oh the hell
yeah!!” Not because she isn’t my life
and love, but because how often do we get to peek through that locked door,
once it’s closed and secured by love and commitment?
Yes, excitement is the very first emotion that screams to
the fore. So much excitement, in fact,
that it’s easy to overlook fundamental blocks upon which to build the playhouse
you’re so eager to use with your soon-to-be new friends. Don’t let the excitement cause you to put the
cart ahead of the horse, as much fun as the lifestyle can bring – talking about
limits before play can make a world of difference, all for the better!
Our first experience was dinner with a couple we’d found on
a lifestyle-friendly website in the local area.
We hit it off right from the very beginning. The excitement urging that first kiss was
like busting your cherry all over again.
Leaning in for the taste of that first kiss… the jitters that she had to
feel coming from my very core… Damn!
I’m not going to elaborate, but I will say that playing with
a masseuse absolutely ROCKS!!
What made it all the more exciting, and still does to this
day, is talking about the escapade with my wife afterwards. The event may be over, but the excitement and
fun lingers - even better because the
most important person in my life is sharing it with me. THAT’S what the lifestyle can bring. Oh, yeah!
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