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From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Swinging or (rarely) partner swapping is a non-monogamous behavior, in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity at informal gatherings of friends to planned regular social meetings to hooking up with like-minded people at a swingers' club. It can also involve Internet-based swinger social networking services online.

Swingers in the lifestyle engage in lots of different sexual activities with others for a variety of reasons. For many, an advantage is the increased quality, quantity and frequency of sex. Some people engage in swinging to add variety into their otherwise conventional sex lives or for curiosity. Some couples see swinging as a healthy outlet and means to strengthen their relationship. Others regard such activities as merely social and recreational interaction with others.

According to Terry Gould's The Lifestyle: a look at the erotic rites of swingers, swinging began among American Air Force pilots and their wives during World War II. The mortality rate of pilots was high, so, as Gould reports, a close bond arose between pilots that implied that pilot husbands would care for all the wives as their own—emotionally and sexually—if the husbands were away or lost. This is debatable, however, since it would have been unusual for wives to accompany their husbands on foreign tours. Though the origins of swinging are contested, it is assumed American swinging was practiced in some American military communities in the 1950s. By the time the Korean War ended, swinging had spread from the military to the suburbs. The media dubbed the phenomenon wife-swapping.
Ok - so there ya go - we all know that Wikipedia puts it out there.   Now that you know exactly what swinging is ( those of us who do it refer to it as being in the lifestyle) all about...or do ya?  Have you ever tried it out?  Oh come on - you know you have thought about it more than once....admit it...there has to have been a neighbor or a friend's spouse that you just wanted to fuck!  We all have- just some of us never share out thoughts or a better word... desires....I AM NOT ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE!

I on the other hand am going to blog about my (our) sexual adventures in the lifestyle.  Some good, some not so good, some right down naughty & nasty...not to mention kinda kinky.  I am gonna say & post whatever cums to mind, what I like, what I don't like, how I feel, how it feels...etc, etc, etc....if  I happen to offend you - get off my blog.   

btw....just so ya know.....the names have/will be changed in my blog - Discretion is a MUST!!!


ALWAYS PRACTICE SAFE SEX !!!!